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Alright, first of all really sorry for bringing in such a big gap in my postings and writings. I got completely involved into my professional life. Someone has said the right thing… youth life is where a boy looses himself the most and it’s also the time where he find himself in the best way.

If someone has to define me, there would be two set of replies you’ll be getting. The first set would be something like I am too kiddish, never taking the situation seriously, careless, enjoying the moment, roaming around here and there with strangers, friends and foes, wasting time and money, fooling around, always cracking idiotic jokes, too dramatic, easy going, etc etc.

The other set would sound like I am too serious about my intentions, responsible, reserved, organized, matured, caring for others, keeping my words tight, philosophical, strict with my principles, etc etc. Now if you ask me to define myself, I really don’t know which set of replies would fit me more aptly. I was recently forced to pressurize my thought upon it after measuring my conversational talent in two different situations.
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Hi there everyone!!!

Previous night i somehow managed to sleep early coz my mom was shouting over me since many days for i was sleepin in day time and not at nite. Anyways, i slept early on 16th and got up early the next morning. As i got up early morning after a long long long time, i felt different. I saw the golden morning sunlight entering my room, i heard the birds singing song, i had breakfast… and so on. I felt the day would really go well. I took a decision to sleep early and get up early everyday.

I decided to finish off some of my undone work in the daytime. I had to go to two different banks, and also to a mobile service centre. I’ve got an account in Bank of Baroda… and according to their rules, if i dont login into their internet banking portal in 90 days, my password will get expire… and so it did happen with me. I had to visit my bank branch to get a new password. And i also had to go to another bank to deposit some money in one of my friend’s account. My latest mobile is having some problem with the charging/usb connecter. So had to go to one of the sony ericsson’s service centre also.

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Well, I am posting my daily diary thing after a long long time. Yesterday was really a nice day. I mean after a long time i felt a bit relaxed. May be bcoz i traveled a bit and so i felt refreshed. As usual, i got up late yesterday coz i slept late the previous nite.

I was sleepin till afternoon untill one of friend ‘Shannon’ called me up over the phone and asked me to get ready for some outing. But i was not in a mood and told him that i dont wanna come. But after half an hour he just dropped in to my place, woke me up by calling me repeatedly. Finally somehow i got ready in a hush-bush manner and got out with him.

Actually it rained in the morning and bcoz of no breeze, the climate had bcom too humid. And for that reason shannon had left his factory and was totally free and bored. And so he decided to target his innocent friends like me to spend time with. Later we went to wincy’s place to pick robin n wincy. Actually shannon took me their by force. But they were unavailable and then we both went and had some food from a small eatery outlet from alkapuri.

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Recently after hanging out with a friend they turned to me and said “thanks for hanging out.” Which is a seemingly harmless statement, which, for some reason, provoked a firework display of thoughts in my brain. The main thing it reminded me of was of myself a year ago when I said that very same phrase to a friend. Her response was quite enlightening: “Sujit, you know you shouldn’t have to thank me each time we hang out, I hang out with you because I want to not because I have to.”

I could just over thinking this comment, but after this response I have stopped thanking people for hanging out with me. Yet, should we thank people for hanging out? They are taking their time, energy and often resources to invest time in our lives. Is this “thank you” just an implied non-verbal thing that we never say but we should assume people are saying to us? Shouldn’t we show gratitude for the people we have in your lives?

I may just be bias as I think that we have become an over grateful society. Apologizes and thanks run so rapid they seem to mean nothing. I am thankful for each and everyone of my friends if I say it or not. The key is finding the balance between fake and genuine .

As I was walking through a mall today (07/06/09),  I saw and heard something that took me by surprise. Maybe this was something that shouldn’t have taken me by surprise. Perhaps I’m just over reacting. Then again, maybe I’m right.

Of course, now you’re probably thinking to yourself “what did he see?” Well I saw a young girl (probably 4-6) walking through and entering the automatic sliding door as I was exiting and as the door opened she said “thank you door.” I smiled and sort of laughed at this looking at the gentleman she was with who simply gave me a slight smile like I was crazy and we all went on our ways.

If you are like me you like to take things for granted, we live in a society where everything is fast, fast food, fast news, and fast communication. I often forget to “slow down and smell the roses.” It’s funny how often time it’s the children that we turn to when we need to be reminded of life’s little lessons.

Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about one of life’s little mysteries. Why is it the less you talk to someone the less you have to talk about? This also seems to be true for friends, family members, co-workers pretty much everyone I have in my life. I feel that it’s the day-to-day interactions that bring people together, without these we seem to have superficial conversations. This isn’t to say that the love and care doesn’t exist, however, often times the commonalities in life that are often the topic of conversation seem to be what’s missing .

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